A New Pattern
We have a pattern problem. We have developed behaviors that we practice consistently, habitually, and without much thought. We start practicing these behaviors before we crawl out of bed in the morning and condition ourselves to practice them before we lay our heads on our pillows at night. When we realize that some of these behaviors are negative or destructive, we have a battle on our hands removing them. When we determine to introduce positive practices to the mix, we find that there is no room for the old is crowding out the new. The first change is in our attitudes . Then we can address behaviors. We need new patterns. We need to replace old, worn-out,, useless and even harmful behaviors with newer, more nurturing and positive actions. What are the steps?
- We must pray for guidance and strength. Our creative God will work with our creative minds to create a new scenario and unveil options we have never considered.
- Then, we must do the hard work of being institutional and aware. We must accept that change is awkward and new behaviors may be “forced,” contrived, manipulative, or uncomfortable. We must practice them anyway.
- We must repeat the new behavior (which includes avoidance of the old) day after day, keeping some sort of record of our progress.
- We must allow grace for the failures and celebrate the victories and patterns begin to change in our lives.
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